getting to know the girlfriend
It was my birthday last weekend. Ok ok stop with the belated birthday cards already. I know you’re all going to start sending emails saying, "Happy belated Birthday! I remembered it but I forgot to send you a card." Yeah right, you bunch of phonies. Stop with the Bullshit. hahaha
Anyway, so my mom arranged a little birthday party for me. I was so happy and surprised! She invited all her relatives and my cousins and my brothers and their girlfriends and as an extra surprise had my girlfriend waiting for me too! It was really nice of my mom. I’m actually a home body and enjoy my privacy so I wasn’t expecting anything out of the ordinary. I wasn’t expecting a birthday party. So I really appreciated my mom’s thoughtfulness.
Down to business. My girlfriend was here to stay for the week, since she had spring break at her school. Since she lives in New Jersey and I live in California, we don’t exactly get to hang out that much. It’s just not that easy to do. Consequently, I’d never spent as much time with her as I have this past week. I was glad to hang out with her. I really was. But, up until this point, I’d somehow thought she was a perfect person without the ability to do wrong. I thought that our relationship would continue to have absolutely no hitches in it other than the fact that guys do tend to hit on her quite often.
I admit it. I was a little naive. She’s not perfect. Although it was great to hang out with her for the week, I realized that she does have a few faults. I do, of course, but I’d never seen hers before. At least not this time around. Back when we dated in college, I saw them all and broke up with her. This time, I had not seen any yet. So, all of this to say, it’s a wake up call when you realize that your girl/boyfriend isn’t as perfect as you thought they were. I’m still dealing with it and considering becoming a masked bandit………
April 3rd, 2006 at 9:29 pm
everyone is crazy in thier own way… so the key is finding someone whose craziness you can deal with, and as long as that person can deal with your craziness well… it’s true love right?